Grooming – How Do Sexual Predators Get Into Our Lives?

please read & share, valuble information to help protect children, though also the internet and easy access to children through chat sites, does away with the need to gain parents’ trust. Though many now are aware that they could be caught out by some that spend time pretending to be youngsters. Though a few do this in ways not to be encouraged, Stinson Hunter is one i have watched for quite a while, and have been impressed with how he applies legal knowledge and self control, so that quite a few have been both reported in the press, and also convicted. Though some of our team disagree with all naming and shaming, and i too have witnessed how this can lead to whipping up hate fests, it has also been through naming before convictions even at times that many have needed to resort too, only because of the reluctance of those in power or with influence, to really tackle the abuse of children, or for society generally to face it within their midsts.
I also know that many that can, are clearing the darknet of the most vile images of children being raped, tortured, and shared, and the good ones, collect the evidence, pass it to the relevant authorities and then take down the site………… Right now more pressure is being brought to bear to control the net in terms of access to pornography and images described………. This is surely now beyond question, and it surely could have been prevented, with those with power adopting a willingness to make child protection the number ONE ISSUE. But was it even on either the Bilderbergs or the G8 agenda ?
We have different ideas, skills, and abilities to tackle this, there is so much still needed, i applaud all who are doing what they can, and encourage others to open their eyes and ears, see the truth being shared, so massively now, by so many brave victims and survivors, and lets help effective help and healing to flourish too……………. there is a niche for everyone to do their bit, also within communities, wherever you are….within or without the system and professions meant to care and support and protect children and their families, anyone with influence, anyone with contact with children, anywhere, everywhere.

Together We Heal

After posting my story of childhood sexual abuse, I was asked an important question by a concerned parent. How did this monster get into your life?

The answer is both simple and complex. The easy part is that they don’t have the appearance of a monster. They don’t look like some James Bond or Cartoon character villain, with beady eyes, horns coming out of their heads, or a big neon sign saying, “STAY AWAY, PEDOPHILE HERE!” Sadly, they almost always look like everyone one else. The gentle minister, the encouraging coach, the neighbor always willing to lend a hand or the family member who seems to be there just when you need them.

And this is where the complexity comes in. How do you distinguish genuine care from pure evil? While there are no set in stone answers, there are some clues to look for and ways to evaluate what…

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survivor of CSA & DV. Instigator/organisor of first public march & rally against child sexual abuse 1993. Also admin @The Real Fresh Start Foundation

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